When a gridder gets pissed off at another gridder he or she challenges the other to a grid-off. If the challenge is accepted, a square is selected and reserved either randomly or by an admin. Both gridders produce a square to fit in the selected one and both are posted on SITO with no names attached. Then we vote say one vote for each Sitoid who has completed over 20 squares. The winner not only gets his or her square put in the grid but may also impose some sanctions on the loser. For example the loser could be banned for five levels or the winner could replace up to three of the losers subsequent squares. I think this would discourage pure shock level insults and encourage blending and artistry. But like i said it will never happen so in the meantime let's just ignore them both until they can play nice.